yeah. pretty gross.
I guess it is something that is bound to happen when you have 2 people who differ on EVERYTHING.
Not something I wanted at all.
Now he is my big dumb ex boyfriend. Wow, that didn't play out too long. I feel like a big dumb moron for even being with someone who is so different than me,. Sad thing, i loved that Big Dumb Ass. After this story, maybe i will realize why i shouldn't have spent so much heart.
hints
1) if he only sees you on weekends...he most likely has other commitments
(sure you may too, so this might work out, until you see him at a grocery store with an asian lady and a baby)
2) ask him about the asian lady and baby you saw him with
(when he says "i have no idea what you are talking about" or "you are sooo crazy" walk away or punch him in the nuts)
3) when a lady calls your house and claims she is "practically married" to Big Dumb Guy. Don't question. Say "I feel sorry for you" and hang up.
4) When she calls back again and asks " Did you have a sexual relationship with him?" If you did, say yes. Don't prolongate the bullshit....ring ring....
when she calls back and tells you that they have a 2 year old kid together living in his mom's basement, and she is Asian. RUN. Not cause she is asian, but because obviously he was lying.
5) When he tells you they were already broken up and she was going back home to her family, Don't believe him.
6) leave the scene
7) tell him to call you when his shit is settled (obviously never) so move on
If not the following things will happen
1) his Mom will hate you so hard. You obviously ruined the relationship.If you didn't exist, neither would temptation. Her son would be with the baby mom, and she could be with baby. I get that. We all get that. Don't fuck with guys who have babies, especially ones that live with grans. I'm regretful, so much so, that i have to warn others.
2) Sisters will get involved. When with Mother, they will try to break into your house and yell things like "GIVE ME MY SON". Lock all your doors. They will try to get through windows and screens you never use. When they get in they will yell loudly "GIVE ME MY SON" as if you have the poor guy held captive.
3) Unplug your phones. They will call relentlessly. How they got your number? I wish i knew.
4) When they come barreling in, don't expect him to budge.This shitstorm is now your duty.
5) After his Mom and sister break into your home and try to bust your ass, you are NOT to say a disparaging word about their behavior and treat them like GOLD. Casino Gold. Never question their intentions.
6) Never expect an apology. When they recognize that "Their Son " is a lying sack (which they won't), they will blame you somehow, and you must take it. Or not.
Or not is the best idea.
7) When it all boils down. you will be left pregnant and alone, being told you RUINED his life. With his Mom and Sister to back it up. Even though all you did was love the guy, you will end up screwed up and to blame in the end.
8) take it from me, and don't go there.
9) apparently you are not supposed to call the cops if he manhandles you. only losers call the cops.
ps. only losers dye their hair red as well.
